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Monday, April 16, 2007
Dar dar we both knows it takes two hands to clap and i mentioned before if we wanna love we got to love each other madly. I wanna take care and love you forever dar..
below are the things to do to maintain a healthy relationship. I got this from my friend's blog. i think it is quite meaningful. :)
Signs Of A Healthy Relationship:
* Trust in each other
* Encourage personal growth
* Supportive in partner’s dreams and passion
* Allow for individuality
* Enjoy togetherness
* No controlling of the relationship or one party by another
* True acceptance
* Takes care of each other’s feelings and considerations
* Lots of affection and intimacy
* Happy in giving and receiving
* Respect is ever present
* Happy to commit to each other
* Proud of who they are and who their partner is
Signs Of A Unhealthy Relationship:
* Dominance and control
* Obsession
* Verbal or physical abuse
* No trust on one side
* Frequent fights
* Extreme fear of losing and rejection
* Constant attempts to change the other person but unwilling to change self
* Afraid of intimacy and closeness
* Giving in order to receive
* Overriding priorities
* Looking to others or partner for a sense of self-worth
* Low self-esteem
* Frequent and repeated experiences of negative feelings
* Feeling overwhelmed or suffocated in love
* Depending on others, especially partner to feel happy and secure
* Playing mind games
* Being too needy and clingy - don’t allow for personal space
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12:31 PM
met up with dar dar around 4pm at compasspoint and we are on our way to marina square. we bought tickets for the show "TO SIR WITH LOVE" it was very bloody and gore. Dar was hugging me tightly throughout the show. haha... we should go watch more of these sorts of show. joking lar dar.. but u are really cute when u cover your eyes with your fingers. We had our meal at Asian kitchen. nice nice..
After the bloody show, we went to walk walk at esplanade. saw the beautiful bridges and even took a photo of dar standing in the middle of the road! the lights and the places we saw are very beautiful, scenic and romantic. We saw alot of couples around there too. took some photos and went back to esplanade haagen daz for ice creammmmmmm... yum yum. we had chocolate indulgence. both of us enjoyed it and the tv commerical of haagen daz make us really eat all of their ice cream...
It was a romantic and sweet evening with dar...
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10:54 AM
something dar dar wrote which is very cute and funny!
Went KTV with nico and her friends at partyworld. Dar is the singer at the ktv. Almost 70% of the songs she covered. The rest only listen.. was happy to sing some duet with dar dar and poor dar got sore throat after her mini concert.
After the ktv session, dar wanted to company me to eat something we decided to go rivervalley there for prata then we go pass a hongkong cafe near great world and they changed our destination. ordered maggi mee. not very nice... dar said her cooking of maggi is nicer.
dar i am waiting for u to cook your dar dar ai xin maggi mee for me!
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10:43 AM
left Cebu on 11th Apr on philippines air... the plane is like quite jerky and landing is very violent. before the trip, went to dar dar place to deliver Mcdonalds breakfast for her, bought 4 meals and get a big breakfast free! so good. 1st time go into dar dar house. 1st thing is to see alot of coke cartons. dar use the cartons as chairs so cute! haha. we eaten our breakfast and i passed dar dar a small card which i bought on my birthday at vivocity. it was cute with a pig in front. it reminds her of me! inside i written some naggy and old man message and after that i bid farewell to dar and was on the way to airport. at the airport before i fly, sms dar a web address of our blog... she thought it was my personal one i told her it was ours.. "wow..touched..:) very swt n nice lehs..the boy n ger so cute" both of them look like us... i am standing in front of dar to protect her against all harmful things. will be sticking together with her thru thick and thin. seriously hope she love this little surprise.
In Cebu, it was quite rush. 1st night theme dinner then 2nd day we woke up at 1pm so late already. so the whole trip is rush rush rush. was only thinking of returning bac k to see her cos the night before i asked her out for dinner when i came back. At manila airport, received an sms from dar, saying she meeting her frens and cant meet me le. can only meet me tomolo. though disappointed but i was thinking like in a healthy relationship, it is important we have our own spaces and own friends so i asked her to enjoy herself. :) dar was very sian when i think they was a little misunderstanding between her group of M4! so in the end i met up with dar and nico. had a short drinking session and i send her home...
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10:27 AM
Wednesday, April 11, 2007
Today is my birthday and i am very happy to have spent it with nobody but u dar dar. thank you for singing a very nice happy birthday song for me at the stroke of midnight and sending a sweet testimonial for me. i appreciate alot and i will always remember that in my heart. I told u u are my angel before and you mention u nv do much. dar u do not need to do anything but u are my angel it is your company and presence that is important and make a difference to my life.
We took 2 sets of neocards on my birthday and we did enjoyed ourselves taking the photos alot. we had a great dinner too at thai express. so funny to see dar dar lips grown to a hotdog size... haha so cute and we got to wait for it to subside before we can take any photo. still pretty pretty with ur hotdog lips okie? no worries!
Today is my 24th birthday i wish all my birthday you will always be around together with me and you will be my dar dar forever.
歌曲：园游会
歌手：周杰伦 专辑：七里香
琥珀色黄昏像糖在很美的远方
你的脸没有化装我却疯狂爱上
思念跟影子在傍晚一起被拉长
我手中那入场圈陪我数羊
薄荷色草地芬芳像风没有形状
我却能够牢记你的气质跟脸庞
冷空气跟琉璃在清晨很有透明感
像我的喜欢被你看穿
摊位上一朵艳阳
我悄悄出现你身旁
你慌乱的模样我微笑安静欣赏
我顶着大太阳
只想为你撑伞
你靠在我肩膀深呼吸怕遗忘
因为捞鱼的蠢游戏我们开始交谈
多希望话题不断园游会永不打烊
气球在我手上
我牵着你瞎逛
有话想对你讲你眼睛却装盲
连蛋糕跟你嘴角果酱我都想要尝
园游会影片在播放这个世界约好一起逛
L o V i N g Y o U
5:22 AM
We wanted to watch this movie for sometime but it is not available yet. We are happy to find out that both of us loves to watch "cartoons" and we both love movies like finding nemo which is y we decided to watch this show. The story line was very interesting and we both like the twist in the end... we like the character whom always doesnt gets to sleep and having dark eye rings. very funnnnnny. After the movie, we had our dinner at billy bombers. dar had a big big hotdog for dinner.. we cant finish. we took photos of our neocards collection too and we had a hard time giving out the various awards... like the most pretty award, the most act cute award and many more..
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4:55 AM
Today dar dar says she is tired and she needed some rest at home so we did not meet. However in the end she told me that she is doing something for me... so sweet of my dar dar. keeping a secret dun tell me wat is that. I pop up at her door steps and drop my ben and jerry ice cream outside the door and left. dar's mum saw me and say i am guai ren! ben and jerry already melted. inside there is a sweet too for my dar dar's throat. I hope my little little surprise will always brighten up her days and nights. :)
歌曲：天使忌妒的生活
曲:曹格
词:邬裕康
编曲:涂惠源
真的什么都别说
彩虹正在消失
我们赶快捕捉
以后的以后再说
你安静的眼神
也有一种节奏
love is a beautiful thing
多美丽多难得
love is a wonderful thing
就是那么爱你
什么都想为你
爱是一种毒瘾
正在发作
你知道我爱你
会爱到很久
甜蜜不必急着说
慢慢享受
连天使都忌妒的生活
安静也是沟通
几个呼吸就够
说什么都嫌太多
把现在的画面
留到老的时候
只要看你一秒
那些亿万个心愿
都简化成一句我爱你
(幸福的生活)
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2:12 AM
our seats A17
Dar dar eating my pig hands
I booked the jolin tickets for my dar dar 5 days ago. Jolin is one of dar dar favourite idol. That time at our ktv outing donny mentioned that the tickets are sold out but i am determined to get it for her. I went online and got the tickets and straight away sms dar and she is very very happy. ni kuai le shuo yi wo kuai le... The concert was entertaining and we took alot alot of photos. from the moment we took MRT to the end of the concert.
We took train to orchard and we took a neocard before our jolin concert. We had something light at cineleisure. it was japanese noodle. very nice nice. we had a quick meal and proceed to take bus 16 there. Bus was not crowded and everything peaceful till we alight. For our seats we do not need to queue up. we jus went to the east entrance and soon we found our seats. We begin taking photos... and disturbing our neighbours.
Dar was having flu so i ran outside to get her a pocket tissue, some sweets and drinking water. After the concert we went to KTV to sing our hearts out. 11pm-4am total about 60 songs. we sang almost all the duets in KBOX. sweet sweet love again...
Dar i told you that day that our love will be filled by happy songs no unhappy songs. Only happy stuffs will follow us throughout our love story.
Dar dar laughing at a china gal's hair. so funny
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1:13 AM